The letters, emails, phone calls, and cards of support are wonderful. By Monday I will be loading and posting everything to date. I have been neglecting the blog as Kristin has missed 4 visits in a row. I have been spending all my down time preparing for court. Please say a prayer, I am going for custody. I am proposing custody for me with generous visitation for Kristin. The kids need both of us.
All Kristin had to do was comply with the agreements: Regular visitation was all I ever asked for.
Merry Christmas (belated) and have a safe and happy New Year.
Wednesday, December 29, 2010
Tuesday, November 16, 2010
Response
Folks, I really appreciate the support and I understand Kristin's blog raises tons of questions. I really want this blog to be just about facts with actual court documents.
Please let me make this clear: Kristin's tactic is simple throw everything and anything at the wall and see what sticks. Look at the post you all are referencing. She claims I sent her something that says I make over $200k per year. Then she says that I would be paying her $8000/week in support as if it is fact. Folks do the math. $8000 per week x 52 weeks = $416,000 per year in support! Yet I have had over 100 emails asking why I would tell her how much I make. So lets clear this up now:
1. I never emailed Kristin
2. I never sent, emailed, wrote, called, used smoke signals, etc on any of the BS that is on these posts.
3. Everything, including my financial affidavits are a matter of public record. The freedom of information act gives anyone the right to anything on my blog. Notice Kristin's blog is just her opinion, reality, propaganda, or whatever you wish to call it.
4. I am loading the docs as quick as I can. I have everything scanned. But it takes forever to post the pages (so you can actually see the writing).
5. Yes, I have filed multiple lawsuits for slander, libel, and defamation.
So please be patient with me on getting the docs on the blog. Please look at the fact that her blog is designed to "Wow" you into indignation. But look at it logically. She puts just enough truth to make it believable (yes we were in court Friday, other than that...). Then adds her own colorful twist to make herself look like the victim. In her world I have to be the "Evil" one to get all of her followers to rally to her cause. It is called control. Hitler, Stalin and every master manipulator does one thing first; control the information to gain control of the publics hearts and minds. I will ONLY post the court documents. You decide from that.
Please let me make this clear: Kristin's tactic is simple throw everything and anything at the wall and see what sticks. Look at the post you all are referencing. She claims I sent her something that says I make over $200k per year. Then she says that I would be paying her $8000/week in support as if it is fact. Folks do the math. $8000 per week x 52 weeks = $416,000 per year in support! Yet I have had over 100 emails asking why I would tell her how much I make. So lets clear this up now:
1. I never emailed Kristin
2. I never sent, emailed, wrote, called, used smoke signals, etc on any of the BS that is on these posts.
3. Everything, including my financial affidavits are a matter of public record. The freedom of information act gives anyone the right to anything on my blog. Notice Kristin's blog is just her opinion, reality, propaganda, or whatever you wish to call it.
4. I am loading the docs as quick as I can. I have everything scanned. But it takes forever to post the pages (so you can actually see the writing).
5. Yes, I have filed multiple lawsuits for slander, libel, and defamation.
So please be patient with me on getting the docs on the blog. Please look at the fact that her blog is designed to "Wow" you into indignation. But look at it logically. She puts just enough truth to make it believable (yes we were in court Friday, other than that...). Then adds her own colorful twist to make herself look like the victim. In her world I have to be the "Evil" one to get all of her followers to rally to her cause. It is called control. Hitler, Stalin and every master manipulator does one thing first; control the information to gain control of the publics hearts and minds. I will ONLY post the court documents. You decide from that.
Sunday, November 14, 2010
Update on Friday's hearing
Hi all,
I will post the court ruling as soon as I get the written version. Kristin was found in contempt of court (again). My attorney filed a motion against Kristin for fee's he was awarded for the 4 day trial in June/July. $15,000!!!! I had to fill out an affidavit and have my employer sign it for my missed wages I was awarded as well (a whole $632).
If you read 11 on my own blog and then see the actual ruling I think you will find the difference enlightening.
This weeks posts will include:
-The judgement from the trial (51 pages).
-The ruling from Friday.
I will post the court ruling as soon as I get the written version. Kristin was found in contempt of court (again). My attorney filed a motion against Kristin for fee's he was awarded for the 4 day trial in June/July. $15,000!!!! I had to fill out an affidavit and have my employer sign it for my missed wages I was awarded as well (a whole $632).
If you read 11 on my own blog and then see the actual ruling I think you will find the difference enlightening.
This weeks posts will include:
-The judgement from the trial (51 pages).
-The ruling from Friday.
Wednesday, November 10, 2010
Response to reader
I thank you for your question. I am dedicated on this blog to only put forward the facts with as little opinion as possible. I will, however, answer your question as it is the basis of everything that has happened:
The entire reason Kristin and I had issues had nothing to do with money, intimacy, lust, greed, another woman.
Kristin and I started dating in January of 1994. In April of 1994 we were intimate (I hope my kids don't read this, embarrassing to a Catholic Dad). I know it is no excuse but I fell in love with her very quickly and her boys from her previous 2 marriages. Kristin and I were married in October 1994. My first Daughter Courtney was born 12/5/1994. My little "doodle" (my pet name for her) is the reason I fell in love with the idea of having so many kids in the first place!
My ex wife's 2nd ex husband, Eric Molitoris, sued for paternity of Courtney 10 years later. We fought him tooth and nail. We scraped together any funds we could and even went into debt fighting him. I "hated" him (don't judge please, God gives you challenges like this for a reason) for even suggestion this beautiful girl who would only sleep on daddy's chest as an infant was his.
We won, however, the judge did not say I was the father only the "known" parent. The DNA tests were thrown out by Kristin's attorney. In October 2006 I contacted the company who conducted the DNA test. Eric was continuing to tell people he was her father and I was determined to stop it once and for all. I did this without Kristin's knowledge. When I got the test results my life was shattered. It showed I was not the father. I died inside. I could not believe that Kristin had slept with Eric while we were engaged and knew (hid) for 12 years that Courtney was not my biological child. Had prevented her biological Dad from knowing she was his. Worst of all was my "Catholic" wife whom I had built the perfect life with had lied to everyone and me! (I love my Courtney, always have, always will!)
When I confronted Kristin, her response was; "So, we have had 8 other children". I lost it, I went into a severe depression. I went to counseling with a priest. Kristin reluctantly went with me 1 time. She even screamed at Monsignor West that she had done nothing wrong. It was then that Msgr. West instructed me on our one on one sessions to move out for 2 weeks and go and live with my Dad. This would give us the space needed so Kristin would take me seriously and actually work on our relationship. Kristin filed for divorce within the 2 weeks. I was suddenly without a home of my own, was prevented from seeing my own kids, and even my own spiritual counselor could not get through to her!
I hope this answers your question.
The entire reason Kristin and I had issues had nothing to do with money, intimacy, lust, greed, another woman.
Kristin and I started dating in January of 1994. In April of 1994 we were intimate (I hope my kids don't read this, embarrassing to a Catholic Dad). I know it is no excuse but I fell in love with her very quickly and her boys from her previous 2 marriages. Kristin and I were married in October 1994. My first Daughter Courtney was born 12/5/1994. My little "doodle" (my pet name for her) is the reason I fell in love with the idea of having so many kids in the first place!
My ex wife's 2nd ex husband, Eric Molitoris, sued for paternity of Courtney 10 years later. We fought him tooth and nail. We scraped together any funds we could and even went into debt fighting him. I "hated" him (don't judge please, God gives you challenges like this for a reason) for even suggestion this beautiful girl who would only sleep on daddy's chest as an infant was his.
We won, however, the judge did not say I was the father only the "known" parent. The DNA tests were thrown out by Kristin's attorney. In October 2006 I contacted the company who conducted the DNA test. Eric was continuing to tell people he was her father and I was determined to stop it once and for all. I did this without Kristin's knowledge. When I got the test results my life was shattered. It showed I was not the father. I died inside. I could not believe that Kristin had slept with Eric while we were engaged and knew (hid) for 12 years that Courtney was not my biological child. Had prevented her biological Dad from knowing she was his. Worst of all was my "Catholic" wife whom I had built the perfect life with had lied to everyone and me! (I love my Courtney, always have, always will!)
When I confronted Kristin, her response was; "So, we have had 8 other children". I lost it, I went into a severe depression. I went to counseling with a priest. Kristin reluctantly went with me 1 time. She even screamed at Monsignor West that she had done nothing wrong. It was then that Msgr. West instructed me on our one on one sessions to move out for 2 weeks and go and live with my Dad. This would give us the space needed so Kristin would take me seriously and actually work on our relationship. Kristin filed for divorce within the 2 weeks. I was suddenly without a home of my own, was prevented from seeing my own kids, and even my own spiritual counselor could not get through to her!
I hope this answers your question.
Pictures
There are pictures on the 11on my own blog. Please be assured anyone can find a picture on the internet and put it on a blog. Although a very nice picture, it is not me or anyone I know. I remind you of my commitment, only the facts. Read the actual documents and judge for yourselves.
Update
Hi all, below is the first of 1000's of docs I am uploading. I am trying to give you the most recent first. There is a court date for these 2 motions on Friday 11/12 at 2pm. I will post the judges ruling over the weekend.
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